For Ben, his pride comes from being a father.
“I couldn’t be more proud to be a dad,” he says. “I hope it gives other disabled people confidence.”
His words speak to something powerful. For many disabled people, assumptions and stereotypes can still shape how others see their abilities, especially when it comes to parenthood. Too often, these perceptions create doubt where there should be encouragement.
Ben’s experience challenges those assumptions.
Becoming a parent is a meaningful milestone, one that brings responsibility, joy, and a strong sense of identity. For Ben, it is also an opportunity to lead by example, showing that disability does not define what someone can achieve in life.
By sharing his story, he hopes to inspire others to believe in themselves and their potential. Representation matters, and seeing someone confidently embracing parenthood can help others feel that the same path is open to them.
Ben’s story is a reminder that confidence can grow through lived experience, and that sometimes, simply being yourself and sharing your journey can empower others to do the same.
At Paul’s Place, stories like Ben’s highlight what is possible when people are supported to live full, meaningful lives on their own terms.