Limb Loss and Limb Difference Awareness Month is observed every April. It raises awareness about the experiences, challenges, and achievements of people living with limb loss or limb difference. It’s a perfect time to educate, advocate and celebrate the strength and resilience of the limb loss and limb difference community.
Bruce, aged 56, was highly active. He ran half marathons, he enjoyed swimming, and cycled in all weathers. Bruce worked for Natwest Insurance before having a career change as a Prison Officer. But his world fell apart when Bruce developed Multiple Sclerosis (MS), which led to both legs being amputated after catching an infection.
Bruce says, “It’s hard accepting my life as an amputee. I lost my hobbies and physical abilities. It was mentally painful. At Paul’s Place, I met my partner, Sue, found a community, and the charity has activities for keeping my mind active and occupied.”
Bruce doesn’t like relying on others. Staying independent is important, but his electric wheelchair can make using public transport difficult.
When it comes to pain, Bruce now has a high threshold. After his (Bilateral) double leg amputation, Bruce fell from his wheelchair three times. He broke multiple bones, his ribs, both hips and lower spine to name a few.
Bruce says, “The mental struggle is so much worse than the physical pain, which I can tolerate, but I get on with it.”
Bruce managed to keep in touch with his old work colleagues at Natwest Insurance. They regularly met for pub quizzes in Emersons Green. Sadly, the pub recently closed, and it’s uncertain what the future may hold when staying in touch.
Bruce says, “It was tough seeing my previous work colleagues progress through life, such as having children, which I cannot have”.
Moving forward, Bruce says, “I’m determined not to give up”.
He shares the same mindset with his partner, Sue, who is also physically disabled. He’s willing to try anything. So far, Bruce has competed at skittles and quizzes, he enjoys mastering a crossword and the thrill of catching fish with friends at Paul’s Place.
At Paul’s Place, Bruce feels less alone, and it’s an opportunity to experience new places and create new memories with his partner.
Bruce is excited about our move to Paul’s Place Hub in Shire Way. It will have more regular activities, accessible sports, and various therapies, all conveniently placed under one roof with multiple and dedicated rooms. Although the entire building is having a refit for accessibility, the community can hire space from us for its groups and activities that our members can join.
Bruce smiled with relief when hearing this news.
To support our appeal, which will get us into Paul’s Place Hub with the facilities we need, please donate:
Every contribution will make a life changing difference.